17September 2008
Yes, I do fully agree. Mother's love for her son can never be questioned or overridden/overwritten by anyone else, not even by the father himself. Her arrogant or hostile political insight has nothing to do with her affections and love for her child or with a "mother and son" relationship. A mother is always a mother and there should not be any question authority on mother's love. Burning own child could never be a choice; it has been too painful, way deep into her heart, deep into her soul. She could have been ready to be burnt (herself) instead, for getting her child back, in any case this would have been possible. Her son's final destiny is still fully occupying her mind and shall be haunting her for and with all loves and memories (whom she raised) for her entire life. You see, she could be changed over time as a person too, who knows?
Regards.
Mohammad Gani
Cambridge, Massachusetts, USA
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Yes, I do fully agree. Mother's love for her son can never be questioned or overridden/overwrit
Regards.
Mohammad Gani
Cambridge, Massachusetts, USA
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On Wed, Sep 17, 2008 at 6:36 PM, Kajimel Raisuddin <Kraisuddin@hotmail.com > wrote:
Since she is a hindu, she did burn her son in the hindu way, I do not see anything wrong in it. She lost her son. She must be greiving a lot. Folks! she is human being. What the criticizers are doing, making triple mistakes: (1) On her worst time of the life, they are giving her serious troubles instead of comforting her, (2) She is hindu, she burnt her dead son, there is nothing wrong in it but they are asking for punishing her more, means, trying to create another hindu-muslim confrontation by which many lives may go, (3) As a mother she has every right to do what ever she wants, with the deadbody of her son, not breaking the rule of the country, and she did not do that, but still these people are accusing her, which is just unacceptable. This only shows that some people can be so illogical, impractical, inhuman, and extreme selfish in just their own attitude; being even extremely wrong.
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From: aminul_islam_raj@yahoo. com
Date: Wed, 17 Sep 2008 00:39:47 -0700
Subject: [vinnomot] Re: FW: [ALOCHONA] Mina Farah burnt his muslim rojader son insted of burried , a humble question to "sushil'n HR groups
Mr Kajimel,She must be punished so that no one can commit such inhuman act again. if parrents killed their own son/ daughter and say' we killed our own child and are very sad ' is it enough to to be freed friom all charges?.No parrent can do whatever he/she likes with his or her childs deadbody .Kajimel Raisuddin <Kraisuddin@hotmail.com > wrote:"....we demand exemplary punishment of Mina." -- How people can be so rude? She lost her son. She must be grieving so much, she is a human being regardless of her religious orientation, she must be devastated loosing her child. For any human being, loosing a child is the most extreme loss of life and s/he becomes extremely measurable mentally, physically, and psychologically. The people who are shouting with hatred to punish her more, such as the one in quotation above, can no way be equated with human being! We have all sympathy for her to cope up with this extreme loss and measurable condition. I have no idea what type of good human those complainers are, but one thing I know, they are extreme hate mongers. Let's not listen to those disturbing elements. What she did is after all an extreme personal matter. Everybody has the right to decide on what s/he will follow in the life. No one has the right to impose anything on the other individuals,on no religious, no political, and no personal matters. I do not think she broke any laws of the country. So, why she should be punished? For what? Under what jurisdiction these people are calling for punishment? Did she buy into the tenats of those people who are offending her? It does not appear so. Then what is their right to disturb her in her such a measurable situation? I do not know when these unfortunate happenings will stop! Only God knows.
To: alochona@yahoogroups.com
From: mashuque@pacbell.net
Date: Mon, 15 Sep 2008 16:14:07 -0700
Subject: Re: [ALOCHONA] Mina Farah burnt his muslim rojader son insted of burried , a humble question to "sushil'n HR groups
I followed the sad news and agree with Mr. Raheem to treat this as a family matter (which it is). The family must be going through a very difficult period of time in their life, we as fellow Bangladeshi should try to help them in their time of need instead of making it any more difficult.- mashuque
----- Original Message ----
From: Raheem M. <raheemm1@yahoo.com >
To: alochona@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, September 15, 2008 7:35:19 AM
Subject: Re: [ALOCHONA] Mina Farah burnt his muslim rojader son insted of burried , a humble question to "sushil'n HR groups
Dear Mr. Aminul Islam,
I am aware of this tragic incidence in New York. It is further saddening that as a parent, she might have made a decision that seems contrary to her sons' wishes. But this is a family matter and as a mother/father, they have a greater right to decide these things. It is unfortunate but it is the way it is. I am sure this must have been a complicated and difficult decision for Mina Fara and her husband. We may not even know the entire story.
Protesting will not bring the departed back and nor can it reverse the funeral arrangements.
Rather, let us give the parents an opportunity to grieve and not politicize this tragic matter.
- Raheem
New York
--- On Mon, 9/15/08, Md. Aminul Islam <aminul_islam_ raj@yahoo. com> wrote:
From: Md. Aminul Islam <aminul_islam_ raj@yahoo. com>
Subject: [ALOCHONA] Mina Farah burnt his muslim rojader son insted of burried , a humble question to "sushil'n HR groups
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Date: Monday, September 15, 2008, 5:23 AM
Dear all,May be you all are shocked at the sad news that a Muslim youth was died in a accident in USA. His mother so called controversial writer Mina fara oppose his funeral in Muslim rituals and finally burnt him.He was a pious Muslim. He attended a ifter mahfil on that day.Dear susil sujon secular groups why dont you protest the inhuman anti muslim act?Then your secularism means opposition of islam?we demand exemplary punishment of Mina.
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